While your story as a couple is the central part of the day, we know how important friends and family have been in getting you both to this point. Your marriage is the legacy of the time and love they’ve invested in you, your journey and your future. 

We specialize in bright, airy, romantic, full-of-life wedding photos and videos for the modern couple. Our focus is on the place where life meets art, where the raw emotions that surface in brief moments become treasured heirlooms and memories.

That’s why we’re here to capture all the formal, and not-so-formal moments, whether it’s the tear rolling down your dad’s cheek when he sees you in your dress, your college roommates cheersing with a pre-ceremony drink, or the posed group shot that pulls in all your aunts, uncles and cousins from both sides of the family.

the wedding experience

IT'S YOUR WEDDING DAY. MAKE IT YOURS, BE PRESENT,

AND WE'LL CAPTURE THE GENUINE MOMENTS.

every cherished moment

&  then some

While your story as a couple is the central part of the day, we know how important friends and family have been in getting you both to this point. Your marriage is the legacy of the time and love they’ve invested in you, your journey and your future. 

Wedding Portfolio

We specialize in emotional, romantic, full-of-life wedding photos and videos for the modern couple. Our focus is on the place where life meets art, where the raw emotions that surface in brief moments become treasured heirlooms and memories.

That’s why we’re here to capture all the formal, and not-so-formal moments, whether it’s the tear rolling down your dad’s cheek when he sees you in your dress, your college roommates cheersing with a pre-ceremony drink, or the posed group shot that pulls in all your aunts, uncles and cousins from both sides of the family.

Wyndridge Farm | Dallastown, PA

Jess & Brian

'Tom & Em were fantastic! We didn't even look for other photographers or videographers after we first spoke to them, we knew they were it! They were so easy to work with during our whole planning process, and really made it painless for us."

WORD ON THE STREET

Venue: Historic Acres of Hershey / Day of Coordinator: Sapphire Road / Photo: Tom & Em Weddings / Video: Tom & Em Weddings / Florist: Lace & Peonies Floral Design / Hair: Deja Vu Salon / Makeup: Aimee (@theaimeenicolemua) / DJ: AJ Productions / Cake and Desserts: Lancaster Cakes / Catering: Stocks on 2nd / Dress: K&B Bridal / Bridesmaids Attire: Amanda Ritchey Bridal/ Tux/Suits: Generation Tux / Rings: Stuart (private jeweler) / Invitations: Minted / Officiant: Deacon Andrew Lacovara / Calligraphy/Signage: Welcome sign made by CJ (a groomsman) / Other: Penny’s Ice Cream

See more photos and full blog post here.

WEDDING VENDORS

Emily & Colin

Historic Acres of Hershey

Venue: @thewillowsatashcombe / Photography & Video: @tomandemweddings / Coordination: @ryanplanningplus / Florals: @weddingsbyjdk / Installations: @bakereventco / Hair: @emboldenedhairartistry @bridalstyles.tlc / MUA: @raebeautyandbridal / Band: @strangers_bvtlive / Catering: @thejdkgroup / Dress: @sarahseven @lovelybridephilly / Tux: @generationtux @indochino / Rings: @benarijewelersofficial / Cake: @k_sweetdesigns / Photobooth: @fxphotobooths

WEDDING VENDORS

tHE Willows at Ashcombe mANSION

Kelsey & Ethan

Venue @allenberryresort @allenberryweddings / Photo + Video @tomandemweddings / Florals @wild.indigo_ / Rentals @a_to_z_event_rentals / Coordinator @ubdweddingsandevents / Beauty Team @mkupthebeautystudio / DJ @bringonthebash / Cake @pabakery / Song @stephensanchezofficial

WEDDING VENDORS

Allenberry Resort

Sophia & Cormac

@thewillowsatashcombe / @eventsbygillianandco / @allie_rissmiller @yarrish12 / @3west_productions / @corkandchambers @mossandvineeventdesign / @sarak.beauty / @mkupthebeautystudio / @jdkcatering /  @bluebooth

WEDDING VENDORS

The Willows at Ashcombe Mansion

Allie & Michael

Venue: Wyndridge Farm / DJ: JB Pro Live / Desserts: Browns Orchards / Officiant: Sealed with a Kiss Officiants / Hair and Makeup: Salon Blu York / Dress: Love it at Stellas  / Florals: Everyone Deserves Flowers 

WEDDING VENDORS

Wyndridge Farm

Sam & Alex

Venue: @hayfieldscountryclub / Photo & Video: @tomandemweddings / Floral: @truefloral / MUA: @emilyseeleymua / Hair: @jasminepalmaartistry / Coffee Bar: @albaespresso / Live Painter @lisamarie.paints / Band: @retrospectband
Transportation: @americanlimousines

WEDDING VENDORS

Hayfields Country Club

Colleen &  Tommy

You've checked everything out and looked around. I want to make sure you have your questions answered and you are excited to work together. After getting to know more about you as a couple and making sure we're a good fit, we will move on to the booking process...

phone call

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Don't worry - no one is getting down on one knee. After our phone call, we'll send over a proposal so you can see everything you've expressed interest in and a total amount. The proposal will also have the contract and invoice attached so you can look over everything at any time. 

proposal

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Once you're ready to move forward, you can sign the contract attached to your proposal and pay your 50% deposit. Once all of that is done - YOU'RE OFFICIAL! We couldn't be more thrilled to have you. To begin the process, we'll send you our exclusive planning content.

booking

finalize

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You're official & in full planning mode. Now's the time to schedule your engagement session! We'll get you on the calendar, finalize a location and get some gorgeous photos.

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eNGAGEMENT

A month before the wedding, we'll go over all of your day-of details. Then, it's finally here! The day the two of you say "I Do" and dance the night away surrounded by your family and friends. Just know we're excited to celebrate and capture your wedding day.

big day

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You can expect your photos or video to be delivered via an online gallery within about  60 days of your wedding. At that time, we'll also send over details about preserving your images through prints and albums. 

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the process

Send me to the pricing guide

investment

READY FOR MORE?

Hiring a photographer and videographer couldn’t be easier with our combination packages. We love working along side each other and started our business after seeing a need for couples to hire a team who works together on their behalf and not in competition with one another. We put our everything into our weddings to ensure every couple has a quality finial product.

At the end of the day, we exist for you, your memories, and your day - not for ourselves and our portfolio.

We offer custom packages to all of our couples because we know your wedding day will be just as unique as you. We use our consultation call to see what exactly you are looking for and put together a custom package that we think will work best for you. We also offer pre-made packages and our expertise in weddings to suggest what we believe should be included in every wedding day.

Looking for a ballpark? Our photo + video clients spend an average of $11,000 with us while our single service couples spend an average of $6,000 with us. 

DO I CHOOSE THE MUSIC FOR MY VIDEO?

While we wish we could say yes, we don't want you to end up with a massive fine from a label company. We cannot use licensed music that you would hear on the radio so at this time we do not take requests for songs in your videos. We pay for songs that we can license for a reasonable cost and choose the song we think fits best with our style + your wedding!

DO YOU SHOOT LGBTQ+ WEDDINGS?

YES. It is a foundational belief in our business and as humans to be inclusive. You are safe and welcome with us no matter who you love.

is drone footage included?

We love the drone as much as you do! As long as there are no venue or flying restrictions, drone footage is always included in our video packages at no extra cost.

HOW MUCH IS YOUR RETAINER?

We require a 25% non-refundable retainer fee for wedding service packages. This retainer is used to lock in your wedding date upon signing the contract. An additional 25% is due 3 months after the contract is signed. The remaining amount is due 30 days before your wedding day!


my partner and i are awkward - is that ok?

Everyone says this to us at some point! I'll be honest, the first 5 minutes will be awkward in front of the camera BUT we are professionals at moving you into poses and keeping you moving! In between our regular poses, we play games. Ex. Bump hips back and forth while you walk towards me - this keeps you guys having fun and we can capture those genuine reactions! (see top photo for example)

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR ASSOCIATES?

Our associates have the same skill level and expertise that we do. These are our right hand people that we have trusted (in some cases) with our own wedding photo/video. They typically will shoot your day and we will edit everything to be consistent with our brand and other images or videos you may see on our website. We love our associates and the ability they give us to serve multiple couples with a quality experience.

DO YOU SELL ALBUMS?

Yes we do! We are so passionate about albums and would love to show you what we have to offer. You can get more info from our pricing guide!

WILL YOU RE-EDIT MY PHOTOS IF I DON'T LIKE THEM?

Not without extra fees. We have developed a style that we love and are known for. We like to believe our couples choose us with this style in mind and know that they're photos will look like the others we've shot. If you don't love the look of our images, please check out some other photographers in your area with different styles.

Can we see a full gallery?

Why does our booking proposal have an expiration date?

Your proposal is valid until that expiration date. Our business is changing and growing every day! After awhile we raise our prices to reflect the demand for our services. If you have a proposal that has not expired but our prices have changed, we will honor your proposal pricing. If your proposal has expired, our new prices will apply!

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